Intj and dating

For the INTJ flirting and dating is often much different than it is for the more emotionally expressive types. There are some stereotypes out there saying that INTJs are not interested in dating and can be someone who wants to be sllo, but that is not connected to their type necessarily. There are plenty of INTJs who do want to find a romantic partner, and who care about being in an important relationship. When it comes to flirting the INTJ does often try to impress the person they are interested in. They do a lot of research on someone when they are truly interested and search for different pieces of information about them. They want to know who this person is completely and will spend a lot of time and energy looking into them.

INTJs are not known for placing a lot of emphasis on romance. We embody the suppression of emotion, not the expression of it. We can be so matter-of-fact and hard-headed that it's difficult to imagine us doing something as frivolous as falling in love. At the same time, we want a relationship. We know that we're pretty darned outstanding as relationship material, just too awkward to play the dating game.

Self-sufficient internal processors who treasure their independence and personal space , this type can get a lot of flack from me for being cold and rigid. Good on you! INTJs occupy an interesting cross-section of personality traits: They love learning new things and exploring, but they also hate surprises, being surprised and anything surprising. This is about as INTJ as it gets. On the plus side, dating an INTJ is actually pretty easy once you know this about them.

INTJs are not impulsive people. In fact, it could take them years to properly decide whether or not the two of you make sense together. First they have to discern whether or not they are attracted to you.