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8 Masturbation Tips for Giving Yourself An Incredible Orgasm
How to Masturbate for Women - Best Tips for Female Self Pleasure | Allure
Masturbation can sometimes feel daunting. I also get frustrated by how easily I can get thrown off course, or about how particular I am with my environment. Ultimately, though, I feel happy to have one reliable way to get myself off. I know from my experience as an educator that there are many, many others who have yet to find a way they like to do it. When we take the time to explore on our own, though, both our solo and partnered sex lives benefit. Exhibit A: I need intense pressure or vibration to get off, but my sexual partners for the first five years of my sex life only executed light, fluttery rubs and tickles or suction-y cunnilingus — which I hated.
Masturbate, of course! For starters, masturbation doesn't just feel good—solo play is legit good for you. Female masturbation is GOOD for you.
Now, I fully agree that sometimes masturbating should be as simple as just touching yourself. Sometimes the best way to improve your masturbating session is to introduce new playthings into it. If you're a regular suction-clit vibrator fanatic, may I interest you in, say, a bullet vibrator?