Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Raise your hand if you've ever had a partner roll over post-sex and ask, "Did you come? But that question also tends to come up because people expect orgasms to sound a certain way. Whether they're depicted in movies, porn, or even in erotic literature, orgasms seem to be defined by loud moans, heavy breathing, and a declaration of "I'm coming! If only it were that simple.
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This sound may be inappropriate for some users You can turn these warnings off in your user settings page. A man and a woman having sex with lots of moans and squeaky bed noises. About: I told a couple that I'm friends with about Freesound and they got real excited pun intended. I edited the recording a bit in Audacity.
Here's a weird secret: I'm pretty sure the orgasm sounds I make with partners have been influenced by porn. Some 23 percent of Spanish women have never, or almost never, succeeded at achieving orgasm during sex. I'm not telling you where I fall in this pool; I've shared enough secrets today.
I was sure that moany sex meant better sex; to me, the women who used those sounds while they humped were the poster children of the sexually free. I suspected that they were having the coitus of champions, which meant, of course, that there was something I was missing out on. As the years went on, I had other boyfriends, but my decibel level remained disappointingly similar. By the time I was with Dave, my sonic landscape was still most closely matched with a library. I wanted to take a closer look at what I might be missing out on.