Being willing and eager to venture south is only half OK, maybe 70 percent of the battle — just doing oral isn't enough sometimes. There are things to know, things to literally never do again, and things you can improve. A vagina isn't a clamshell about to snap down on your tongue, and there is no reason to be scared of going down there. By now, in this time of feminist strife, men should have no excuse for being afraid of or grossed out by oral sex if it's something their partner is into. It's really all fine and good. Being asked if it feels good every 30 seconds is really distracting.
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It sounds vulgar when you put it that way, but it is what it is. They do. They go nuts for great oral sex. There has to be some clitoral stimulation either before or during penetration for an orgasm to happen. When men ejaculate, their desire to continue having sex decreases significantly. Men tend just to stick it in and forget all about the foreplay.
Ah, oral sex. To fix it or make it better, I would advise discussing with the partner on what is best for you to reach an orgasm and try to work you up in different ways. I gotta say the obvious and no teeth, and not too much tongue.
Research shows that straight women statistically have fewer orgasms than any other demographic, including lesbians. And then there are fools like this who think making a woman come runs counter to their masculinity. Responses have been edited for clarity and style. One last name has been withheld for privacy.